Dorothy Mullins
Holland

Dorothy Mullins
Holland, 93, died unexpectedly at Anna Jaques Hospital in Newburyport,
Massachusetts on October 25, 2007 after a brief illness. Until her
death, she lived a vibrant, independent life in her lovely home, Marsh
Cottage. Her beloved husband of 67 years, E. Morton Holland,
predeceased her on August 22, 2005.
Born and raised
in Manhattan, Dorothy schooled at St. Agatha, and graduated Phi Beta
Kappa and Magna Cum Laude from Smith College in 1936, where she majored
in French and Italian, and minored in Mathematics. Daughter of George
and Hazel Mullins of Arkansas, Dorothy followed in her parents’
footsteps to become a teacher. Her first jobs were at Brearley and
Spence Schools in Manhattan. After raising her four children, Dorothy
returned to teaching at Dwight School for Girls in Englewood, NJ and
again at Greens Farms Academy in Connecticut, where she also served as
Middle School Head, Boarding School Coordinator, and for eight years as
Director of College Placement. Her long experience in education,
extensive knowledge of schools and colleges, and personal approach to
counseling enabled her to launch her own practice as an Educational
Consultant at the age of 60. She helped many students to make
appropriate and discriminating choices regarding their selection of
colleges.
In 1936, Dorothy
met her husband to be at a cotillion at the top of the St Regis Hotel in
Manhattan. Two years later she was wed to E. Morton Holland in the
chapel at Columbia University. The couple enjoyed living in a variety
of places such as a small “gentleman’s farm” in Long Lake, Minnesota,
and suburban homes in Minneapolis, Mn., Englewood, NJ, Weston, Ct.,
Siasconset, Nantucket, and finally Newbury, Ma.
Dorothy, born to
be a mother, was adored by many even as a surrogate mother. It gave her
great joy to add extra places at her well adorned holiday dinner
tables. An avid reader and lover of words, she usually mastered the New
York Times crossword puzzles in ink. Other favorite past times were
baking fabulous cookies and lemon squares, making biscuit for her
children when they were home, and nurturing her green thumb. Gardening
was a big part of Dorothy and Morton’s lives together, hers the flower
garden, and his, the vegetable garden. And when their raspberry patch
produced, Dorothy’s kitchen became a veritable jam factory!
A woman of great
intellectual strength, Dorothy also exuded joy in human interaction.
She loved people, especially children, and she loved giving, through
helping others to see their gifts in life. Her great faith was nurtured
for a lifetime through the Episcopal Church, where she served on the
Alter Guild, the Vestry, as a Sunday School teacher, and later in life
with hospitality and counting of the monies. Her interest in community
lead her to participate in the local hospital Aide Association, as a
Smith Class Agent, and as a Hospice Volunteer. Never afraid to ask for
money, Dorothy helped to mastermind one of the largest fund raising
endeavors, a Dream Catcher Auction, for the Nantucket Hospice
Organization. Her continued interest in languages prompted her to study
Russian just for fun. Perhaps most important however, was Dorothy’s
ability to adapt to life’s demands, to weather the many unexpected and
undesired circumstances with determination and with faith. Her ability
to appreciate the gifts of life experiences evolved appreciably and was
reflected in her unfailing gratitude. As much as she loved life, she
also welcomed leaving life to be back together with her devoted husband,
Morton. A woman of great integrity, Dorothy lived her life with grace
and simple elegance.
Dorothy leaves
her four children Barbara Lidz of St. Petersburg, Fla., Mary Goulazian
of Woodstock, Vt, Darcy Holland of Newburyport, Ma. and John Holland of
Woodstock, Vt. She is also survived by her brother Jack Mullins and his
wife Alice of South Hadley, Ma., four grand children, Lauralee Lidz,
Cindy Goulazian and Peter Goulazian, and Caitlin Holland, and three
great grand children.
Those who knew
Dorothy will have an opportunity to enjoy her “many faces” and her “joy
and wisdom” at a Memorial Service and Reception in celebration of her
life, to be held at Ascension Church, Ipswich, Massachusetts on
Saturday, May 3, 2008 at 1 pm.